Negative Polarity & BDSM

[Jade]

I want to clarify firstly that I am not attempting to pass judgement on anyone. I have also engaged in BDSM sex and understand greatly how intensely enjoyable it is and how it is not "evil" or anything like that. I understand that more often than not it is experienced by two people who intimately love each other. I just feel, personally, that Ra is very very clear on what they say about what composes a negative sexual energy transfer.

one entity experiencing the pleasure of humiliation and slavery or bondage, the other experiencing the pleasure of mastery and control over another entity.

To me, this describes exactly what composes BDSM sex. Notice Ra says "experiencing the PLEASURE of". There is no judgement. There is just the point made that this is indicative of yellow or orange ray blockages during intercourse.

I thought of this yesterday as I was rereading our chatroom meditation quote upon the will.

Acceptance of self, forgiveness of self, and the direction of the will; this is the path towards the disciplined personality. Your faculty of will is that which is powerful within you as co-Creator. You cannot ascribe to this faculty too much importance. Thus it must be carefully used and directed in service to others for those upon the positively oriented path.

There is great danger in the use of the will as the personality becomes stronger, for it may be used even subconsciously in ways reducing the polarity of the entity.

Sometimes I have thought while engaging in intercourse with my husband, "Oh it would feel good to be tied up right now" or whatever, but then I realize that I'm desiring to experience the pleasure of bondage, and I realize that it must be one of those things that falls away as I progress along the path. I mean, it's not like green-ray sex is anything to scoff upon - and the goal, anyway, is to work it up to exchanges even higher in the chakras, I thought. It's probably just my bias but I take this sexual energy transfer thing very seriously. Again, I'm not judging, I'm just encouraging others to take the step forward to consciously use their awesome powers for service to all through the sexual energy exchange. Being in a situation where one has a partner to participate in this with is a huge gift. Reaching for the highest possible manifestation of this gift is important to me.

Here is my understanding of the mechanism as Ra describes it: In a "negative" sexual energy transfer, the transferred energy goes primarily to one person, usually the "conqueror". The "sub" gives of this willingly - hence, as Reaper says, the sub has the power. In 4th density negative, this evolves to only the conqueror achieving orgasm - orgasm denial being a common experience in BDSM culture. In a positive, green ray energy transfer, both entities release the stored energy without effort, even if only one person achieves orgasm. Both are invigorated. The power of the green ray sexual energy transfer literally was the fuel for the creation of the Ra material, and I'm sure Jim would attest that it likely kept Carla going well beyond the time limits of the energy that her own physical body could sustain being in this incarnation. I just feel that letting distortions of this extremely powerful, magical act fall away as we become aware of them seems like a good goal to have.