@YinYa
I think acceptance is important but that it is also important to be able to look at things objectively.
If someone told you about being into BDSM, would you tell them it's neat they embrace their distortions or would you try to help them see more clearly?
Seeing clearly as in becoming aware they use this as a way to not work on deeper issues within themselves, that this creates further distortions with the potential of creating energitical nodes that become harder and harder to balance as they pile up. (edit: I do not want to deny it can be helpful to the person for a time)
I personally don't care what people do, they are me that is where they're at, but I think it is important to not become a justification for others to indulge in their unhealthy behaviors by wanting to be overly accepting. Here there is to take note that the more you make an other-self aware, the more you make their subsequent choices polarizing. So I'd think it's well to share a more balanced view only if the other person shows signs of desiring to heal, else you might just worsen their current state by trying to control with polarity instead of seeking to be an answer to a need.
I think acceptance is important but that it is also important to be able to look at things objectively.
If someone told you about being into BDSM, would you tell them it's neat they embrace their distortions or would you try to help them see more clearly?
Seeing clearly as in becoming aware they use this as a way to not work on deeper issues within themselves, that this creates further distortions with the potential of creating energitical nodes that become harder and harder to balance as they pile up. (edit: I do not want to deny it can be helpful to the person for a time)
I personally don't care what people do, they are me that is where they're at, but I think it is important to not become a justification for others to indulge in their unhealthy behaviors by wanting to be overly accepting. Here there is to take note that the more you make an other-self aware, the more you make their subsequent choices polarizing. So I'd think it's well to share a more balanced view only if the other person shows signs of desiring to heal, else you might just worsen their current state by trying to control with polarity instead of seeking to be an answer to a need.