10-20-2010, 07:45 PM
(10-20-2010, 07:32 PM)Deekun Wrote: Wouldn't you have a better time at learning your strengths as an Introvert rather than trying to become an Extrovert? I think you will be fighting an uphill battle against yourself by, well, not being yourself and trying to be something you are not. How have you found your experiences so far when trying to be more extroverted?
Since I started working towards this goal in June it's easier for me to talk to people I don't know so well, I can maintain longer conversations, and I find social gatherings more enjoyable now. I'm also happier in general and more accepting of others but this is probably only partially due to the increased extroversion because I've been improving this way ever since I started my spiritual path 2 or 3 years ago. But recently I feel like I've hit a harder bump, so right now I'm both embracing my introverted/nerdy side more, as well as trying harder to make new friends. I think I'll always be more of an introvert but I feel like, for me anyways, a balance would be better. I would LOVE to be able to be the kind of person who's life's greatest joy is computer programming or something, because then my happiness would be dependent entirely on me, but this lifestyle doesn't suit me. I want a nice balance of socializing with people I enjoy being with, and alone time.