How does one fall in love? And LOA.

[Erotes]

The most in love I ever felt was a relationship that somehow mutually lacked any judgement at all it was just love and trust. Then one of us fell into self judgement, the other into fear, love stayed but it wasn't the magic way it was. My mantra for all relationships now is no judgement, ...trust and love.

I think that's the way back

After all, what is true love, but unconditional acceptance of self and of "other?" I'd say your formula is insightful, and often overlooked during the heat of the relationship. This is why the fusion of deep intimacy, combined with meditation serves us so dearly. It keeps us calm, cool, collected, and contemplative, so as to keep us in tune with our true purpose. (Which is joyous/everlasting expansion, however personally defined.)

That said, I'll ask you to take one step further into the depths of realization.
Why ever dream of going back, when you can just as easily go beyond?

Levitate.