03-09-2017, 03:25 AM
On a level i agree fully, it is logically very convincing!
On another level, i think there is something important missing, which is the key in my opinion!
You describe it as there being a desire and an obstacle which is a (false) belief. So you have to increase the desire to overcome the obstacle.
In my opinion and experience its usually TWO CONTRADICTORY desires, where only one is being recocknized.
An example would be:
Lets say someone has weight problems and is too think or fat.
Then there is the desire to lose weight. On tries everything, various kinds of diet, doing sports, using affirmations.
You have some initial success, but after a while usually Sabotage begins, you stop the diet, become tolazy for sports and gain weight again.
Why is this? There must ne a contradictory desire?
But is the desire to be fat?
Most probably not.
But it can be hidden in there.
So lets assume the basic (contradictory) desire is that of safety.
(since this is often but surely not always a need hidden behind too much Body fat).
This person was (like all of us) very vulnerable when it entered incarnation. This vulnerability lead to being terribly wounded.
Then the equation would be vulnerable = being wounded.
So the strategy would then be being safe = not being vulnerable.
The further strategy might be (in this case) to gain weight and fat, just like an armour withthe additional benefit of feeling less attractice (the possible equation could be less attractive = less likely to be attacked, sexually for example).
While these are all false beliefs (being vulnerable doesnt mean one will automatically be hurt, but Tell that to the wounded one),
the basic content would still be legitimate, namely being Safe and thus not be attackable.
Now you can affirm, desire and try want you want, your subconscious defense system will not let you succeed.
Because it would equate losing weight with being open to attacks.
The more energy you put into one direction, the more your defense mechanism needs to defense itself!
You will have success for a while since you put much Energy into it, but sooner or later your system will "Strike back" even harder.
I think it's most crucial to understand the opposing desire first,
then find a better strategy to fill that need.
When this has been accomplished, affirmations and the likes are a very valuable tool.
BEFORE this is understood and solved, the affirmations route is just a means of desperately trying to control and will have absolutely no lasting effect.
Relating to what you said, i would say there is no vibrational contradiction, since the opposing desire (wishing for your vulnerable Core to be safe) is also of a high vibration.
The contradiction is, in my opinion, rather that between two (seemingly) opposing desires where one of the desires is not being recocknized!
I think this is what the "know yourself" is all about
On another level, i think there is something important missing, which is the key in my opinion!
You describe it as there being a desire and an obstacle which is a (false) belief. So you have to increase the desire to overcome the obstacle.
In my opinion and experience its usually TWO CONTRADICTORY desires, where only one is being recocknized.
An example would be:
Lets say someone has weight problems and is too think or fat.
Then there is the desire to lose weight. On tries everything, various kinds of diet, doing sports, using affirmations.
You have some initial success, but after a while usually Sabotage begins, you stop the diet, become tolazy for sports and gain weight again.
Why is this? There must ne a contradictory desire?
But is the desire to be fat?
Most probably not.
But it can be hidden in there.
So lets assume the basic (contradictory) desire is that of safety.
(since this is often but surely not always a need hidden behind too much Body fat).
This person was (like all of us) very vulnerable when it entered incarnation. This vulnerability lead to being terribly wounded.
Then the equation would be vulnerable = being wounded.
So the strategy would then be being safe = not being vulnerable.
The further strategy might be (in this case) to gain weight and fat, just like an armour withthe additional benefit of feeling less attractice (the possible equation could be less attractive = less likely to be attacked, sexually for example).
While these are all false beliefs (being vulnerable doesnt mean one will automatically be hurt, but Tell that to the wounded one),
the basic content would still be legitimate, namely being Safe and thus not be attackable.
Now you can affirm, desire and try want you want, your subconscious defense system will not let you succeed.
Because it would equate losing weight with being open to attacks.
The more energy you put into one direction, the more your defense mechanism needs to defense itself!
You will have success for a while since you put much Energy into it, but sooner or later your system will "Strike back" even harder.
I think it's most crucial to understand the opposing desire first,
then find a better strategy to fill that need.
When this has been accomplished, affirmations and the likes are a very valuable tool.
BEFORE this is understood and solved, the affirmations route is just a means of desperately trying to control and will have absolutely no lasting effect.
anagogy Wrote:Resistance is the vibrational contradiction between desire and beliefs relative to that desire.
Relating to what you said, i would say there is no vibrational contradiction, since the opposing desire (wishing for your vulnerable Core to be safe) is also of a high vibration.
The contradiction is, in my opinion, rather that between two (seemingly) opposing desires where one of the desires is not being recocknized!
I think this is what the "know yourself" is all about