03-13-2017, 01:59 PM
Quote:Certainly I don't want a tightly controlled forum either. Can we not see that opening a "can of worms" is the very step needed in order to surface ingrained and hidden beliefs and only then can they be dealt with? Hurt is going to happen, there's no way around that. Without unearthing subconscious and millennia-old subconscious triggers, how is real change going to happen?
The question here could be, What do I want to happen in this conversation?
OMG. So very well said, Diana. This is just perfect in so many ways. I challenge everybody in the conversation to take a step back and ask yourself: "What do I want to happen in this conversation?"