03-21-2017, 04:44 PM
(03-17-2017, 11:53 AM)Agua del Cielo Wrote:Jade Wrote:There are points made well on both sides, but IMO Bring4th really needs to ...
Agua del Cielo Wrote:For me it's not about "sides" to start with, it's about a Common issue we Share at the moment...
Jade Wrote:I guess I'm just baffled that we're still here arguing over "picking sides". To me, this isn't about men vs. women...
Not sure what my mistake here could be...
Jade Wrote:One thing I think is a part of the main theme that is encouraged on this forum is that emotionality is unspiritual. I think people tend to side with the person who is displaying less emotions because they perceive that as more balanced...
very very very unfortunately i agree here!
I think there's quite some denial as well as fear involved.
And, i think, this is the basic problem, especially in the threads in question.
I made tons of suggestions in this as well as many other threads, apart from speaking openly about what i feel and what kind "background" (biographical, in Order to explain where my emotional difficulties are), which i feel i do often, there is nothing more that i could do.
As i already stated, These posts usually dont get much resonance if at all :/
Im caught between sharing what i feel is lacking here (Forum in general) and feeling, this is not the place where i can offer something that is of any value to the members, not sure if you can understand this.
Feelings are very hard to communicate over written medium. What one person receives, another does not. We are often just responding to ourselves. And maybe we always are. But moreso than in person, written communication is a mirror. This is where in-person communication would be so much more helpful. But unfortunately we're spread a little thin geographically.