The consequence of turning femanine equality into an ideology

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There is also another aspect that i would like to add:

We make our early experiences with our parents and with our families.
Thats in my experience where we have been hurt initially.

I found that all later experiences build on that.

Those initial experiences we had with individuals, and thats in my opinion where we can heal it.
In healing those experiences that created blockages.

Our later experiences and especially how we view the world and society are built on that.
But, by attributing this to society ( although society definitely has huge problems) we transfer the problem to an area where we can neither heal nor really change it!
We re all contributing our part and that does have an effect, but we will most likely not end patriarchy for example.
If we see this as the cause of our problems (i dont deny that it causes problems) in my opinion robs us off all possibility to heal.
And i definitely would liketo heal before patriarchy ends!

I think when our personal issues are resolved, we have a much "milder" view on the outer world.