07-20-2017, 05:56 PM
(This post was last modified: 07-20-2017, 05:56 PM by loostudent.)
Some people seem so much more perceptive for negative influence that I ask myself if that person might be a negative Wanderer or someone who has some unconscious STS polarization from previous incarnations. But who can judge?
Sure there are a lot of people and groups who can bring me in difficult situations - negative catalyst. I can't say they are polarizing negatively but the lessons that come from interaction with them are puting me in old brain "reptilian" reacting mode ...
It's hard to respond with love and forgiveness when someone drives you (and others) nuts. You would like to slap him or her but you know you won't do it. And you don't see any good in just smiling, being nice and forgiving while the other one continues with his show. You just have to do something quickly. Something that isn't nice. And you don't know what because you are a nice person and you don' like violence.
This is especially difficult if you are responsible for discipline of your child or a group of people.
Jesus teaches in the Bible:
Sure there are a lot of people and groups who can bring me in difficult situations - negative catalyst. I can't say they are polarizing negatively but the lessons that come from interaction with them are puting me in old brain "reptilian" reacting mode ...
It's hard to respond with love and forgiveness when someone drives you (and others) nuts. You would like to slap him or her but you know you won't do it. And you don't see any good in just smiling, being nice and forgiving while the other one continues with his show. You just have to do something quickly. Something that isn't nice. And you don't know what because you are a nice person and you don' like violence.
This is especially difficult if you are responsible for discipline of your child or a group of people.
Jesus teaches in the Bible:
Quote:But I say unto you, love your enemies, and pray for them that persecute you; that ye may be sons of your Father who is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sendeth rain on the just and the unjust /.../ Ye therefore shall be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect. (Mt 5)I hope I'll learn it in this life.