08-01-2017, 07:57 AM
As someone who has a friend that does this with every compliment.
I can say it isn't you so don't take it personally.
My friend seems pretty nice but he is really unaccustomed to people being nice. He's also kinda new a being nice.
He never chose freinds or mates that were nice to him to the extent they would try to build him up and it makes him uncomfortable. He jokes it's like he has terets and he just gets sarcastic after someone is kind to him..
It's been years. First I tried to tone down my compliments but then I realized he'd never get used to it if he only associated with a*******. He still can't take a compliment but I know him well enough to know it still feels good to him even if he gets awkward after.
Like most things others behaviour is rarely about you. I compliment everyone it's up to them how they process it.
I can say it isn't you so don't take it personally.
My friend seems pretty nice but he is really unaccustomed to people being nice. He's also kinda new a being nice.
He never chose freinds or mates that were nice to him to the extent they would try to build him up and it makes him uncomfortable. He jokes it's like he has terets and he just gets sarcastic after someone is kind to him..
It's been years. First I tried to tone down my compliments but then I realized he'd never get used to it if he only associated with a*******. He still can't take a compliment but I know him well enough to know it still feels good to him even if he gets awkward after.
Like most things others behaviour is rarely about you. I compliment everyone it's up to them how they process it.
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