I've been having terrible nightmares

[xise]

Funny! ordinary people would advise me against thinking about these fears and would say thinking about them caused the dreams in the first place.

I've seen my dad, my mom and my sister jump out of the window right in front of me and I couldn't do anything to stop them. they just wouldn't listen. it was the first time I was kind to my dad, when he was hanging from the window and I was holding his hand. I told him some kind words and felt sad. it was one of those moments of me that I haven't witnessed else where. the way I spoke to him and everything at that moment.

In another dream I was with my mom and suddenly she transformed into a demon and attacked me violently, then I said ''you're not my mother!''

there are also dreams of battlefield, being wanted by the police and secret service.
Also being held captive by mafia and street gangs or fighting them.

I've had nearly all the fighting and captive dreams you list here, including ones involving parents (though somewhat different in situations). I've taken them to be strong subconscious struggle between competing beliefs within me, usually about love or fear in some way.