Wanderers and relationships/sexuality

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Haha that makes me think of the Futurama episode A Beast with a Million Backs.  Where love between EVERYONE is as simple as not being so judgemental.

Never saw that but its funny how truth is hidden in some unlikely places. I love Bojack Horseman for that reason. Still a giant orgy sounds not at all like something I'd want. I really thrive on the dedication and getting to know people extremely deeply, you simply cant do this in 3d with more than a few people and lifelong dedication. A  "beast with a million backs" actually sounds like the opposite of what I would want in 3d, maybe in late 6d when we all are aproaching comlete oneness anyways but not in 3d.

I'm very glad to know I'm not the only one who feels that way, I didn't say anything because I do think I'd be too jealous or scared of my mate leaving me for another they preferred to be with, or worse a group.

 I think most people are conditioned this way. We evolved culturally in a paradigm of lack, so we seek to control resources and fear the loss of absolute primary access/ownership. Love is a huge resource. Its pretty great self awareness to admit this about yourself, most people cant look that deep.
fear drives most things vs love and that is why we are as we are.

It's a very terrible feeling knowing someone you love is banging other people without a care about you in mind.  So, I think trust is a key component of a relationship, but I've always desired a monogamous relationship with dedication to each other in mind.

I've been there with one in reality and the other it was just a could have been situation, but wasnt. In both cases I was moved deeply that they were being loved and cared for  in my absence.  Even more so knowing if I was no longer they would still be cared for nurtured and safe. The word is compersion. I think it will be more common in 4d.
compersion - The feeling of joy one has experiencing another's joy, such as in witnessing a toddler's joy and feeling joy in response. The feeling of joy associated with seeing a loved one love another; contrasted with jealousy.