11-12-2017, 05:22 PM
It's so nice to see people getting along in their own ways.
It's weird how even being offensive can bring people together.
I find, in your case Mah, that you often are very VERY vague as to what is specifically occurring or has occurred. In many posts with your anger showing you reference people and events, but provide so little explanation as to the specifics.
It leaves us... (...probably shouldn't speak for others...) ...Me, rather confused as to what has happened to you that you see no problem in your anger and murderous intent.
Quite honestly I see so much of my own hatred within you that I often feel I am at a loss to interact with you in a way that'll provide a good experience to you.
In my own exploration of animosity, pure malice, and hatred, I have found the root to be a lack of love being given to the person enacting such emotions.
I feel, from that personal realization, that the only true means to combat the purity of destruction in those emotions is to meet their intensity with gentleness, compassionate consideration for that person's life.
Why are they so moved towards destroying? What has happened to them to do this to them? Why must they suffer so much that they feel the need to spread that suffering?
I cannot just see this now, and walk away totally. I could, but my heart says this person deserves to be heard.
What is the message under the scream? What is trying to be truly conveyed in message through the spit and roars? What is the intended underlying communication of one so willing to reveal their malice?
I mean no insult by this, but I think the message is simple.
"Why won't they love me?"
It's a bit of twisting logic, but I would describe it that a person whom is denied love, becomes cold, then isolated, then bitter, then enters a downward spiral, they grow aggressive, offensive, trying to remind people that they deserve love. They want love. They matter too.
In many cases of solitary confinement, the confined person WILL act out, sometimes violently, to garnish attention, to be attended to. To attract 'care'. This is no different from 'troublemakers', this is no different from being alone and then exploding on, say, a store clerk when things accidentally go wrong. There's no outlet so everything and anything becomes the outlet.
You deserve to be cared about and considered, your feelings and thoughts, your desires.
So, be angry at me, be offensive. I will hug that crazed animosity, and tenderly remind you that I see your anger and while I may not be able to understand the depth of it, I will not just let it consume itself in rage.
I will try, to be a friend.
Maybe that's foolish of me, and stupid.
But if I don't try, why would anyone else?
I don't see a bad person when I read your posts. I see a severely hurt person, and I'll be damned if I'll see that and do nothing at all. That only seems fair.
I think the world is fair. I think it's humanity whom is unfair.
I'd also just like to say to both of you, you'd probably have interesting conversations if y'all avoided personal remarks on each other.
I like American Dad, I watch that crap. I'm a kid, and a (probably labeled in a CIA or FBI database as a domestic) terrorist of my own mind. I'm a joke, and I am... Sadly a fat ass American lol. I talk crap and judge and do basically all that you've called each other.
You can fight, but must it be so personal? Can't we exchange blows without going below the belt?
I don't mean to try and be a mod or anything, I just don't like seeing arguments turn into fights. You both have a very sharp tongue, are very intelligent. I think it'd be dangerous to not point out the power you each have in hurting each other.
Just, please be careful.
It's weird how even being offensive can bring people together.
I find, in your case Mah, that you often are very VERY vague as to what is specifically occurring or has occurred. In many posts with your anger showing you reference people and events, but provide so little explanation as to the specifics.
It leaves us... (...probably shouldn't speak for others...) ...Me, rather confused as to what has happened to you that you see no problem in your anger and murderous intent.
Quite honestly I see so much of my own hatred within you that I often feel I am at a loss to interact with you in a way that'll provide a good experience to you.
In my own exploration of animosity, pure malice, and hatred, I have found the root to be a lack of love being given to the person enacting such emotions.
I feel, from that personal realization, that the only true means to combat the purity of destruction in those emotions is to meet their intensity with gentleness, compassionate consideration for that person's life.
Why are they so moved towards destroying? What has happened to them to do this to them? Why must they suffer so much that they feel the need to spread that suffering?
I cannot just see this now, and walk away totally. I could, but my heart says this person deserves to be heard.
What is the message under the scream? What is trying to be truly conveyed in message through the spit and roars? What is the intended underlying communication of one so willing to reveal their malice?
I mean no insult by this, but I think the message is simple.
"Why won't they love me?"
It's a bit of twisting logic, but I would describe it that a person whom is denied love, becomes cold, then isolated, then bitter, then enters a downward spiral, they grow aggressive, offensive, trying to remind people that they deserve love. They want love. They matter too.
In many cases of solitary confinement, the confined person WILL act out, sometimes violently, to garnish attention, to be attended to. To attract 'care'. This is no different from 'troublemakers', this is no different from being alone and then exploding on, say, a store clerk when things accidentally go wrong. There's no outlet so everything and anything becomes the outlet.
You deserve to be cared about and considered, your feelings and thoughts, your desires.
So, be angry at me, be offensive. I will hug that crazed animosity, and tenderly remind you that I see your anger and while I may not be able to understand the depth of it, I will not just let it consume itself in rage.
I will try, to be a friend.
Maybe that's foolish of me, and stupid.
But if I don't try, why would anyone else?
I don't see a bad person when I read your posts. I see a severely hurt person, and I'll be damned if I'll see that and do nothing at all. That only seems fair.
I think the world is fair. I think it's humanity whom is unfair.
I'd also just like to say to both of you, you'd probably have interesting conversations if y'all avoided personal remarks on each other.
I like American Dad, I watch that crap. I'm a kid, and a (probably labeled in a CIA or FBI database as a domestic) terrorist of my own mind. I'm a joke, and I am... Sadly a fat ass American lol. I talk crap and judge and do basically all that you've called each other.
You can fight, but must it be so personal? Can't we exchange blows without going below the belt?
I don't mean to try and be a mod or anything, I just don't like seeing arguments turn into fights. You both have a very sharp tongue, are very intelligent. I think it'd be dangerous to not point out the power you each have in hurting each other.
Just, please be careful.