Teach/Learning

[Infinite Unity]

I agree with wolf on defending the self. It should always be defense with no harm coming to the attacker if possible. Honestly, a well executed defense, usually leads to the attacker hurting themselves.

Personally, I don't like a lot of the situations you described. I also understand there are two sides to a story, and most likely. This guy believes he is helping you.

I don't know your situation in detail or specifically. However nothing is impossible. I would begin immediately formulating a plan and taking steps to leave there influences completely.