Why are we so commuted to growth others to not changing

[TheSeekersLighthouse]

I assume my experience and most of yours here must be similar in this one regard for us to even be on bring4th.
Like we've been driven our whole lives to not platuea, never stop learning.
Do better, reach/stretchr, to understand outselves, each other and grow.

I find this confusing, why do they not want to grow?
Is that the worlds programming of "I am what I am" "people don't change" or are they just having to much fun to look deeper?

Should say I'm not judging at all. I just find it interesting that I have almost an inability to ignore all the questions, and to try to understand/learn while others do not seem to have any need for this in their life.
Any ideas?

Down to free-will choice. Believe me, i have visited and spent a lot of time in a country where people LOVE the government, fully support that they need permits to leave their own country, that it is for their 'own good' (their words), and anyone who criticizes it is total scum who deserve to be deported. The worship a former dictator. Speak negative about someone or a company there even though it's true? Carries a jail term for libel. I do see quite a few there beginning to open their eyes, slowly. I have also made some good friends in that country and find at heart these people are very warm, welcoming people, with great capability for abstract thought, the keys needed to open up spiritually, which will happen.

However, does the above negative parts make their perspective 'wrong'? nope, due to the infinity of the one creator, for they are also creator. They are just using their free will in said way, manipulated into thinking it maybe, but still of their own free will. People from this country have told me how much negativity is in their country (but you must never complain yourself or agree with them as a foreigner) and they were shocked when i said it was freely created by the people, a government and state of a country/planet is merely a mirror of how the people are at the time, i find. People are given the catalyst they need. Some have chosen a harder grade than others.

My experience of being/living in that country has offered me intense catalyst of accepting this viewpoint, believe me my frustration was (And to a small degree still is) present, i have worked on meditating/focusing on it, accepting the views and my own negative thoughts on it, then using the acceptance to understand they have their own free-will. My white skin has been subject there to a 'tax', higher prices on everything, while someone I know native to that country has been treated like dirt due to his skin colour there (racism against own countrymen; denied service in a bank).

I do believe that because earth is in fourth density positive, negative energies are slowly coming to the surface to be healed on this planet, for the current energies will not be compatible with fourth-density positive. For those who need more third density or fourth-density negative lessons (at harvest) they will go to where they choose to be/need to be for their lessons to further their own evolution at their own pace. The best part about this game is we can control the speed, how far shall we open the throttle?

No mistake, nothing is wrong/right. Most people I do meet / come close with, seem to have some seeking desire and i do not usually talk about superficial stuff, i like to go deep, but i can only help where there is a calling/desire on the part of the seeker to offer information to them, information on how to seek their own truth, and make the evolutionary choice. I have spoken to students i have taught english to all over the world and many i ended up with we ended up discussing the STO / STS choice at some stage or other.

People are waking up, 9 years ago when I was a kid in 2009, many were unawakened that now are starting to, i see more and more people becoming aware, this will all come out in a wash and will work out, I am sure of it. But i do understand your frustration, take it as catalyst for acceptance

Hi SeekerLightHouse,

I enjoyed reading this. It sounds like you have had some interesting personal experiences. Thanks for sharing your perspective it was a very nice addition to my own. BTW I do not think I have welcomed you to the forum and see you have been here since august so welcome, and thank you for sharing your light.

Thank you very much. And thank you as well for shining your light here <3