The feeling of grief from loss of loved ones

[kristina]

I think you're exactly right, Diana - I get too excited about the "technical" aspects of what's possible, especially when it comes to ways of helping people feel better, and I did not mean to imply that there's a "quick fix" for grief.  There isn't, and despite the metaphysical closeness/oneness of all, there are shared physical and emotional experiences that are no longer possible after our loved ones pass, and this is a true loss.  

My comment was simply intended to build on something that Glow has found helpful in coping with her loss and grief, pointing out that even for people who aren't in the practice of communicating with their guides, there are direct ways of expressing the feelings and thoughts that we may be left holding inside after a passing.  I appreciate your comment.

....And I appreciate your kindness and acknowledging the expression of Diana's comment. Very nice.
I have to think this is process of grief due to the loss of a loved one is exactly that, a process. This is catalyst that Ra speaks of. And through this loss if we will, reach deep within our pain and extract the greater teaching of the pain and sorrow. And this is where the teacher becomes the student once again. If we survive. In this process, you will be able to activate many parts of yourself that once laid dormant. Such as Will. The will to overcome, to search for the answer that lies deep within you and the application of the information learned. This may be why it could take many, many years to process the death of a loved one. You may intellectual understand why they died but on the other hand, your heart cannot contemplate the lack of their presence in your life. During this dualistic argument within you, you will have to find a striking balance or what we may say, a way to reconcile so that we may press onward to complete our journeys. Many emotions may surface during this time. There may be guilt, anger or self hatred. And all these lie dormant within you as this appointed time reaches you. And no one can heal this for you, as you are on your own. Though you may not see due to the veiling, there are many ready in wait to administer healing to you, for you and are with you for always. The love and concern you hope for is there across the veil. However, you must make the trek through each emotion and learn the lesson of healing oneself and becoming the support system you long for.
I suffer too on in this very same way. My love certainly goes to all who suffer but especially in this way as it is so difficult for us to process in our reality.