Paradox Alert: Is it Depolarizing to be Overly Concerned with Polarization?

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Thus far, I have been attempting to stick to discussions about specific sessions, however this question has emerged in my mind as one so central to the entire body of work, that I thought it warranted me venturing off into other areas of the forum.

So... any student of the material would surely know by now that "polarization" is the key to graduation, and so- on the surface- it would appear that careful avoidance of "depolarizing" acts would be of primary concern to those seeking evolution.

However, as we also know, due to the so-called "Law of Confusion" otherwise known as the distortion of "free-will" it is nearly impossible for a veiled entity to truly know what is or isn't an infringement upon the free-will of others, except in the most extreme of cases.

So, at the end of the day, this is suggestive that we perhaps should just do whatever we think or feel may be of service to others (i.e radiating our own being/nature), whether or not those other-selves have explicitly stated a request for such, and without undue concern for whether or not a particular act might be "depolarizing."

In other words, isn't it quite "self-serving" to be editing our actions toward others, out of a fear/concern that they might be "depolarizing" to ourselves?