Paradox Alert: Is it Depolarizing to be Overly Concerned with Polarization?

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Where I get caught up is that 51% actually seems to be like such a low bar- in particular for anybody who has children- that it sort of causes me to stumble in my self-assessment and make me wonder if I am somehow fooling myself.  I mean, how can it be that such a large swath of the population cannot muster the tiniest modicum of care for the well-being of others over that of their own self?  Especially again considering that the vast majority of people become parents, it is just truly shocking to me that so many of them could go through the process of becoming a parent without tipping the scales in favor of STO.

I think, this may be the case regarding parenting:

19.15 ▶ Questioner: Then the newest third-density beings who’ve just made the transition from second are still strongly biased towards self-service. There must be many other mechanisms to create an awareness of the possibility of service to others.

I am wondering, first— two things. I’m wondering about the mechanism and I am wondering when the split takes place where the entity is able to continue on the road towards service to self that will eventually take him to fourth or fifth density.

I would assume that an entity can continue— can start, say, in second density with service totally to self and continue right on through and just stay on what we would call the path of service to self and never ever be pulled over. Is this correct?

Ra: I am Ra. This is incorrect. The second-density concept of serving self includes the serving of those associated with tribe or pack. This is not seen in second density as separation of self and other-self. All is seen as self since in some forms of second-density entities, if the tribe or pack becomes weakened, so does the entity within the tribe or pack.

The new or initial third-density entity has this innocent, shall we say, bias or distortion towards viewing those in the family, the society, as you would call, perhaps, country, as self. Thus though a distortion not helpful for progress in third density, it is without polarity.

The break becomes apparent when the entity perceives other-selves as other-selves and consciously determines to manipulate other-selves for the benefit of the self. This is the beginning of the road of which you speak.