Session 89 - Two Negatively Polarizing Wanderers

[Diana]

I don't feel jugment for you and instead attempt to point out the paradox I see in your queries.

Yes, this exactly!  Which is why I put it in quotes.  You are attempting to point out the paradox you see in my queries.  I assuming you wish to do this for my benefit, and to help move me closer to my previously stated goal of understanding.  Yes?

The difference is that we are all here in discussion. Presumably, we accept the idea, since we are here to discuss, that others' opinions may be given.

The other difference is attachment to outcome. If Minyatur speaks of what he sees, I'm fairly certain he is not attached to an outcome; he is expressing what he notices. A Zen slap, from what I can gather from this discourse, comes with an attachment—that the person being slapped "gets" whatever it is that the person doing the slapping tells them. This is control. When offering insights, one's own filters and paradigms might be considered when "knowing" what someone else "needs." On the other hand, it is always, in my opinion, okay to speak your truth as long as there is no attachment to outcome.

Additionally, if one feels judged, one can look within to find out why. It doesn't do much good to look out at the judge in my experience.