advise me, but, based on The Law of One

[kristina]

From the Camelot Journals & Jim McCarty 4/26/2019
excerpt:
The third blockage resembles most closely that which you have called ego. It is the yellow-ray or solar plexus center. Blockages in this center will often manifest as distortions towards power manipulation and other social behaviors concerning those close and those associated with the mind/body/spirit complex. Those with blockages in these first three energy centers, or nexi, will have continuing difficulties in ability to further their seeking of the Law of One."



So, I believe that the reason that Ra feels that the ego is not a term which can be worked with in their frame of reference is that Freuds' definition of ego as the conscious mind is too broad a definition. I don't think that Ra would see the ego as having that much scope or identity as the conscious. The conscious mind is-I believe-much larger that any particular distortion in it which may be associated with only one energy center. Ra placed it within the yellow-ray energy center, and there are six other centers, each of which contributes a unique level of energy expenditure that, when all are taken together, represents how one person is expressing its consciousness.



Ra's placing the ego term in the yellow-ray energy center makes sense to me as the yellow ray deals with how we relate to groups. Our exercising of our thoughts and opinions in relation to the groups that we associate with offer us an avenue into the possibility of becoming more than simple individuals and enlarging our concept of our self to take on the characteristics of the group.



But as you begin moving up the energy centers to the universal, all-compassionate love at the green-ray energy center, the total honesty and inspiration of the blue-ray energy center,....

I have a huge delima.
Firstly, let me say, I use to say what was on the forefront of my mind but now I am cautious in how I approach another person in order to respect them in all ways.
So, I have a person in which I have encountered. I gave this person permission to use something of mine but gave them a strict request on how I expect the items to be cared for. The instructions were....return them the way you found them which is clean and unblemished. The items were not returned in this condition. So, I made a request and a reminder that my expectations be honored PLEASE. And they were not. I want to tell this person not to use my items because they're not caring for them as we had discussed previously. I also do not wish to hurt, make angry, alienate or make this person feel rejected. Mostly, because I care about their feelings. Can someone give me a little advice? Or tell me how I am confusing the situation further because of my own fear of hurting another person? Thanks guys.