Why the hate for wisdom?

[Jade]

Relaxo sent me a deeply troubling PM.

He accused me of being "on the wrong side" for liking speedforces comment that he is the most hostile one here. Could the admins tell him not to send me personal messages with things like that in the future because I would prefer to keep all arguments public and for all to see so no private fights arise.

so you agree with speed force that I'm "the most hateful person here"

right...good to know what you think

will put you on mute/'ignore list'

my good wishes for you visiting gem in USA were genuine and warm hearted

I recently deleted them because I needed to detach from your negative ideas/thought forms

you've been treating us like data/info providing objects for your personal amusement for days with your divisive polls and your polls themselves have been toxic and causing 'drama' which you clearly use to eat bad energy from, in a vampiric way Sad

your 'feminism is a 5 year old thought' post is so incredibly and intentionally divisive and you KNOW IT

you insulted nearly all the women of b4 in writing that OP

best of luck

don't you dare hurt Gem or brutalise his tender heart.

I hope you can learn a lot from him

Niin metsä vastaa, kuin sinne huudetaan.

Cyan, it's not my intention to call you out, but you also said you prefer your interactions to be public instead of in PMs, so I will say to you clearly and publicly: this is why people call you a troll. Not three days ago you tried to rally support to remove all moderators from the forum. Now, you are asking the moderators to mitigate an interpersonal conflict - which is definitely NOT a part of our duties. You made the choice to make a strong statement about this poster, and they sent you a PM (which I personally would prefer than a public call out, but that's just me) - because you directly instigated them by liking a post that called them the most hateful poster here. As the poster mentioned in their PM to you, there is a block function, which is what you should use if you do not want to receive any more PMs from this poster. You also made a post complaining about people acting like 5 year olds, and I definitely feel like a kindergarten teacher explaining this to you, in good faith, under the assumption that you are not trolling. But deep down I feel like you are trolling. I feel like your call to moderator action here is disingenuous. If you want others to take you seriously, you need to be consistent.

Also, it shows a lack of respect to post a PM in public. If you really thought that this was a problem and you wanted moderator action, you should PM us about it and not create more of a public spectacle. This type of post proves that you enjoy stirring the pot and aren't actually looking for resolution, just more public confrontation.