Genetic changes

[Diana]

My hubby is a ´vertical’ one : he reads countless books on history and checks constantly on his family tree... and I am like but you chose those parents and felt little connection in fact with them, shouldn’t you then get more interested in the friends you made and possible incarnations of yourself with other groups of people who may have nothing to do with the vertical ancestry you are looking into ?

This mechanism of ancestral research may be your husband's way of trying to pierce through the veil. As if to say, "who am I and where did I come from?". This elementary form of self investigation is sometimes useful as it does NOT lend any real definitive answers as to who we are really. However, let's say hypothetically, he is being inadvertently exposed to the Law of One because of your studies. This gives him the choice of a deeper investigation of who he is, where he came from and his true lineage. None of us are without help. You are being lead back to your originality via the Law of One thus giving your mate a chance also. A divinge plan to help another one.
And for the most part, that's the way in which I look at why we are with these families, these friends, these jobs and so forth. Let me say this is but one reason as in this Game there are so many variables and twists and turns.
I also believe my mate is a Wanderer. And he is frazzle dazzled by nothing thus helping me as I am very intense and charged, ready to go. He is the man who says, "ok....see you when you get back but you should sit for a minute and think first before acting", this gives me the chance to remain seated and grounded which is like a type or form of protection but by choice. Me choosing more wisely. And to him, I am the one who says, "you have to tell people, speak and be unafraid of your personal truth!" Truly this man is my friend.
As far as my family goes they all seem like foreigners with the exception of my Mother and her Mother. Within this family the dynamics remind me of Martians with warring type personailties and emotional states. There was a lot of control, manipulation, screaming, yelling, violence and hateful acts done to one another. I have one sister who is very kind and wants to bring others together. I've often thought why am I here? With these people???? To teach/learn. And by not bringing more children into the world (Rh Neg) and adding to the cesspool of karma. I'm not going to go into the lessons learned by being in this family. We will just say, kindness, long suffering, love and patience. Not having children has freed me to go untethered from one place to another meeting all sorts of people as in my jobs most of my work time was 75% travel, 25% home time reaching many. Currently I am working with but a few. One being a prisoner. Not easy. Not easy at all. Even I get stumped and at a loss for words when I help this person.

My life is somewhat like yours Kristina. In my case, growing up in a disruptive familial situation gave me strong survival skills, which have served me well in life and business. Not having children, which was a choice, has freed me to actually reach more children (I have authored and illustrated many art books for kids). My path has been a "universal" one vs. "personal," reaching people through books and art.  

I have long thought that prisons should be a place of healing rather than punishment. I would be interested to hear more about how you are working with the prisoner.

I think the ancestral genetic line may be part of why each person or wanderer chooses the family. In my case, I seemed to have inherited creative talent and intellect from my father. My mother is somewhat psychic though she doesn't really know it. So the genetic lines would provide a fertile ground for access to certain traits useful in this life.