Does consensual sexual domination cause energy blockages?

[TheSeekersLighthouse]

I'd like to reiterate what others have said: the kink is not the distortion, but merely an expression of the underlying distortion. By exploring, accepting, and balancing it, you distort further. The goal is to learn about the self through this distortion, not to get rid of distortion.

I would think that exploring, accepting, and balancing would distort less, not further.

This is exactly why we have explored it.

I read another post above saying that it is a game of closed hearts. I do not believe this is so. Part of opening our heart was exploring these aspects, in a safe, sane and consensual way. It has given us trust in our relationship beyond anything we could ever have imagined.

I can see how it easily could become that, but it is not a black/white issue at all. Despite living in duality, life is not entirely black/white, as it is the intent behind actions that tends to matter more. And polarity is about more than how you are in the bedroom, it is I think a sum of all your thoughts, actions and deeds towards others/self.