The unconditional love myth, as described by Donovan Sharpe

[RitaJC]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ehrZij42CU

He's right. Unconditional love is reserved only for family and pets. People don't love each other unconditionally. They just don't. I know this website is big on "green ray unconditional love energy" and all that crap, but let's be real: NOBODY BUT YOUR FAMILY AND PETS LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY and vice versa.

If you want to be loved and respected, you have to take responsibility for earning it and keeping it, because both are ABSOLUTELY conditional.

I've been angry for quite some time, because I didn't want to take responsibility for not having properly earned the love and respect I've wanted. And this "unconditional love" BS only gives unrealistic expectations.

And conditional love brings out the best in men. Those of us wanting unconditional love are just not taking responsibility for ourselves. This man speaks the truth and his brutal honesty is opening my eyes. Men looking for unconditional love are weak, and I just allowed myself to be weak because I didn't want the responsibility of being strong. And that needs to change.

Basically, f*** unconditional love.

I am sorry to say but I hadn't heard anything this incompetent, impotent, and misogynistic for a long time (I mean the first 2 minutes of the linked video, didn't abuse my soul listening after: "females are utterly incapable of loving anybody unconditionally except their children and their pets")