The unconditional love myth, as described by Donovan Sharpe

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But what do you mean "Becoming who you see yourself as?" Do you mean becoming what I don't like about myself and learning to accept it? Or do you mean something else?

I mean your ideal self as you imagine it—the person you would like to be or think you are at any given moment. Imagine the very best version of yourself, and that is what to strive for and stay true to. This ideal will change as you evolve. The idea is to be awake to it, and not look outside of self to "fix" self. Do you see yourself as kind, for example? Your actions, words, and thoughts ideally will match the vision of who you see yourself as.

That makes sense. I guess I'm trying to formulate the best ideal self to want to embody lately. I admit that a black magick practicing, negative, bitter man who spits in the face of people throwing love and support his way is not it.