(01-06-2020, 03:45 PM)Kaaron Wrote: I think the distortion begins, when we see STS as "dark".
Sometimes the brightest, most self assured person in the room, is STS.
It doesn't mean "selfish at the expense of others".
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Just wait until that person concludes that you are an inconvenience or an impediment to them in some way. Then the sheep clearly separate from the goats.
They will relate to you in whatever way is conducive to their goals, plain and simple. If being nice does the trick, great. If they feel you've crossed them, they will destroy you without a second thought.