05-11-2009, 03:05 PM
thank you ali quadir, it is helpful to read of your experiences
alexander is thankfully very much engaged in the present, his comments like this seem to be mostly when he is a mediative mood, perhaps not fully consious of what he is saying
but yes i agree with you and am very comfortable with the idea of helping him to realise that the past is past - very good advice, thank you
what has surprised me so much is how strongly i'm reacting to his comments, which really are just a reinforcement of what i believe anyway...
and thank you ali quadir for that reminder to remain open
alexander is thankfully very much engaged in the present, his comments like this seem to be mostly when he is a mediative mood, perhaps not fully consious of what he is saying
but yes i agree with you and am very comfortable with the idea of helping him to realise that the past is past - very good advice, thank you
what has surprised me so much is how strongly i'm reacting to his comments, which really are just a reinforcement of what i believe anyway...
and thank you ali quadir for that reminder to remain open