From my experience most non-denominational spiritualist New/Age meditation or whatever groups are populated with more women than men. I could show videos of examples but that isn't really important. If you're expecting to get along with girls that are not interested in these topics then maybe that's why you aren't compatible with them.
You are kind of correct about how in particular Western women are kind of like that, but I wonder if you've ever traveled out of what I'm assuming is North America or Western Europe. People don't have such a repressive attitude towards guys wanting romantic relations. In the U.S. a girl the age of 23 will look at a guy the age 27 and think OMG HE'S OLDER than me but I've seen PLENTY of guys like 40 years old with hot 20 year old girls in public just enjoying themselves in other nations and no one....CARES AT ALL because there are so many poor people so many hundreds of millions of women are looking for a guy with just an average house or beat up car as long as he has some kind of money in those places--impressed by amounts which you couldn't live off for 3 weeks in the first world. Those cheap looking guys I've witnessed weren't rich and oftentimes didn't look so hot. They probably just had cars, an average house and maybe a few grand because the economic disparity between a place like the U.S. and anywhere in East Europe Latin america or Africa/swathes of Asia is -tremendous-.
LOL the idea of a 40 year old guy successfully getting a nice looking girl like 23 years old to live with him and even go out in public at regular public places like malls because he was SO MADE OF MONEY because he had...a few racks. The idea of that dynamic ever happening in Canada/Australia/US/UK ah...ahaha..AHAHAHAHa. More like "THAT GUY IS MILDLY UNATTRACTIVE, 32 years old AND ONLY HAS $10,000 INSTEAD OF $200,000 OMG AMANDA EWWW I CAN'T BELIEVE HE CATCALLED YOU! CALL CNN #METOO THIS TRAGEDY COULD HAVE BEEN AVOIDED!!!"
THEN YOUR PUPPY FELL ON A PART OF THE SIDEWALK..SCRAPED HIS KNEE! CALL YOUR DAD WHO WORKS AT HARVARD WE NEED TO SUE11111!!!! *Hysterical sobbing*
lol
It's incredible how starved the men in developed countries get as a result of the pressure they're put under to make enormous amounts of money. Many wind up without companionship even though there is nothing is wrong with them. They get older and are just thought of as the leftover dudes no one wanted as time drags on. Maybe I shouldn't sound so shallow, because not everything is about appearances. Not every female needs to look like an hourglass. Maybe lower your standards? I don't like how that sounds, but if you're in a country with a ton of people with money, and everyone wants the girls that you think are attractive.. they'll ignore you unless you have "something to offer" [lots of money] because their friends will criticize them for liking you even if they have a feel for you if you don't have stuff they want. That's happened to me many times. It's not important.
It's just I can't help but think of how many guys are independent and have an apartment..you need to have an enormous amount of money for a small apartment in the developed countries. small apartments won't impress people or be suitable to raise a family in. Why would a woman stay with a guy with a 1 bedroom apartment that will go up in cost every year that couldn't comfortably fit a family? Picture a guy who has money and it's not even an independence thing but he doesn't have a -ton- of additional money. A lot of them want kids, and unlike guys they can't wait forever. Infertility becomes a problem.
Renting a 1 bedroom apartment for 1500 dollars in a major city over 30 years amounts to 540,000 in rent. Not counting utilities, rent adjustment, and other factors. There's plenty of reasons a lot of people in the 70s ditched the U.S. The immense financial pressure people are put under limits their freedom immensely and it's like some tribal taboo to mention it. Plenty of people straight up left the U.S. in the 60s and 70s for this exact reason. You work full time or you can easily become homeless. No one will adopt you.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hippie_trail
A lot of people went to Lake Atitlan
Women look for a provider and if you aren't a provider, it's a big issue and these days it means you make the many many thousands of dollars you need to have an average lifestyle. I can think of a way to sugarcoat it.
It's why guys aren't interested in these things as much as I wish they were. They know they're under this pressure if they want companionship. Just going to these New Age groups doesn't necessarily mean those kinds of women would want to be friends with you just because you have mystical perspectives. I mean seriously isn't that what a stoner is? YEAH GIRLS ARE ALL OVER SHAGGY N SCOOBY
I bet I'm going to receive plenty of flak but I tried to word this softly to not offend anyone.
I've been disappointed many times with the understanding that someone wearing flowers in their hair doesn't really mean anything if you don't live up to their material expectations." Regular" totally non-spiritually oriented women in other countries are LESS MATERIALISTIC than the Western hippie-looking girls and it's hilarious to me. Seeing younger guys completely clueless about this perspective and seeing them get so neutered ugh..
sorry it's like watching a puppy never go outside.
I expect people to take issue with what I've written in this message but I can say I'm not some repressed Elliot Rodger angry with life cause my lack of riches made me an incel. I don't have a strong attitude about any of this B.S. Why should I care?
You are kind of correct about how in particular Western women are kind of like that, but I wonder if you've ever traveled out of what I'm assuming is North America or Western Europe. People don't have such a repressive attitude towards guys wanting romantic relations. In the U.S. a girl the age of 23 will look at a guy the age 27 and think OMG HE'S OLDER than me but I've seen PLENTY of guys like 40 years old with hot 20 year old girls in public just enjoying themselves in other nations and no one....CARES AT ALL because there are so many poor people so many hundreds of millions of women are looking for a guy with just an average house or beat up car as long as he has some kind of money in those places--impressed by amounts which you couldn't live off for 3 weeks in the first world. Those cheap looking guys I've witnessed weren't rich and oftentimes didn't look so hot. They probably just had cars, an average house and maybe a few grand because the economic disparity between a place like the U.S. and anywhere in East Europe Latin america or Africa/swathes of Asia is -tremendous-.
LOL the idea of a 40 year old guy successfully getting a nice looking girl like 23 years old to live with him and even go out in public at regular public places like malls because he was SO MADE OF MONEY because he had...a few racks. The idea of that dynamic ever happening in Canada/Australia/US/UK ah...ahaha..AHAHAHAHa. More like "THAT GUY IS MILDLY UNATTRACTIVE, 32 years old AND ONLY HAS $10,000 INSTEAD OF $200,000 OMG AMANDA EWWW I CAN'T BELIEVE HE CATCALLED YOU! CALL CNN #METOO THIS TRAGEDY COULD HAVE BEEN AVOIDED!!!"
THEN YOUR PUPPY FELL ON A PART OF THE SIDEWALK..SCRAPED HIS KNEE! CALL YOUR DAD WHO WORKS AT HARVARD WE NEED TO SUE11111!!!! *Hysterical sobbing*
lol
It's incredible how starved the men in developed countries get as a result of the pressure they're put under to make enormous amounts of money. Many wind up without companionship even though there is nothing is wrong with them. They get older and are just thought of as the leftover dudes no one wanted as time drags on. Maybe I shouldn't sound so shallow, because not everything is about appearances. Not every female needs to look like an hourglass. Maybe lower your standards? I don't like how that sounds, but if you're in a country with a ton of people with money, and everyone wants the girls that you think are attractive.. they'll ignore you unless you have "something to offer" [lots of money] because their friends will criticize them for liking you even if they have a feel for you if you don't have stuff they want. That's happened to me many times. It's not important.
It's just I can't help but think of how many guys are independent and have an apartment..you need to have an enormous amount of money for a small apartment in the developed countries. small apartments won't impress people or be suitable to raise a family in. Why would a woman stay with a guy with a 1 bedroom apartment that will go up in cost every year that couldn't comfortably fit a family? Picture a guy who has money and it's not even an independence thing but he doesn't have a -ton- of additional money. A lot of them want kids, and unlike guys they can't wait forever. Infertility becomes a problem.
Renting a 1 bedroom apartment for 1500 dollars in a major city over 30 years amounts to 540,000 in rent. Not counting utilities, rent adjustment, and other factors. There's plenty of reasons a lot of people in the 70s ditched the U.S. The immense financial pressure people are put under limits their freedom immensely and it's like some tribal taboo to mention it. Plenty of people straight up left the U.S. in the 60s and 70s for this exact reason. You work full time or you can easily become homeless. No one will adopt you.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hippie_trail
A lot of people went to Lake Atitlan
Women look for a provider and if you aren't a provider, it's a big issue and these days it means you make the many many thousands of dollars you need to have an average lifestyle. I can think of a way to sugarcoat it.
It's why guys aren't interested in these things as much as I wish they were. They know they're under this pressure if they want companionship. Just going to these New Age groups doesn't necessarily mean those kinds of women would want to be friends with you just because you have mystical perspectives. I mean seriously isn't that what a stoner is? YEAH GIRLS ARE ALL OVER SHAGGY N SCOOBY
I bet I'm going to receive plenty of flak but I tried to word this softly to not offend anyone.
I've been disappointed many times with the understanding that someone wearing flowers in their hair doesn't really mean anything if you don't live up to their material expectations." Regular" totally non-spiritually oriented women in other countries are LESS MATERIALISTIC than the Western hippie-looking girls and it's hilarious to me. Seeing younger guys completely clueless about this perspective and seeing them get so neutered ugh..
sorry it's like watching a puppy never go outside.
I expect people to take issue with what I've written in this message but I can say I'm not some repressed Elliot Rodger angry with life cause my lack of riches made me an incel. I don't have a strong attitude about any of this B.S. Why should I care?