How to develop outside the will of dictatorship?

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This is so wise Dtris, thank you.

It takes a while to analyze to which point consequences come mainly from our choices.

I was never bitter when young, but I thought life was unfair in many ways, towards me or others, and I would get some inside anger, till one day examining deeply these anger moments, I realized they were all related deeply towards myself, and this for having made the very initial choice to be in that given situation. Of course I was not born into slavery, but I am curious as still today my very very rare anger always resolves back to the self.

So this is why I relate so well to what Dtris says. I think it is very clear and profound, thank you again,

on edit: it doesn't mean that I see life as 'fair' today, and that we shouldn't work on changes, but we all know here that life presents catalysts and this is in fact a gift.