how do you open the heart chakra without loving everyone?

[AnthroHeart]

hello there everyone.
here is something from llresearch channeling Q'ou
"As a warrior of light you use no weapon but what may be called the armor of light, the sword of truth, and a wide open heart chakra, loving without stint, without expectation of return, and most of all with no judgment. It is not difficult to love negatively oriented individuals once you can connect into that portion of your deep mind which sees each person, whatever the vagaries of trouble and circumstance, as a holograph of the one infinite Creator. This entity becomes utterly essential to you, and you may pray with a full heart with this person and move from strength to strength, from learning to learning. All threat disappears, all separation vanishes."
i have developed biases and distortions over the course of this life. it is hard enough to get rid of them. but even harder when you are facing negatively polarizing indivduals every single day or worse possesed people. perhaps it is even impossible. who knows.
anyways id be really interested in how many here have actually fully opened their heart chakra?

I've had sporadic openings of it in early childhood, feeling that everyone and everything deserved equal love in the grand scheme of things, even though I had people like my family that I loved more directly or were closer too in this incarnation and couldn't personally give everyone and everything that same type of love. This notion of universal love was fleeting and came in periods of clarity in very early childhood, but it did form the backbone of my distortions towards egalitarianism and fairness that would be part of my seeking later. Throughout the greater portion of my life, I maintained a philosophy that while some people were bad, I couldn't hate an actual person on a soul level, but could only hate and resent their actions or philosophies. I really didn't feel actual hatred(at least that I'd accept or admit) until my DNS phase and my shadow side started coming more to my attention.

Early in my seeking in my early 20's, I had sporadic openings again. As far as STS people and entities? I just wasn't so concerned with them or focused on them in my heart chakra openings directly, but on universal love. I focused on loving what was good, and what was distorted or ignorant but good at its core, which is most beings. I acknowledged some beings are purposefully STS on a soul level until they hit 6d(though I guess good in the grand scheme of things), and did not focus specifically on loving them, but didn't hate them, just let em' be.

You don't have to go out and bear hug an Ipissimus to open your heart chakra. Just sayin'. Also, your love from a 3d standpoint will never be 100% perfect. Love as best you can and allow your higher self and the creator to fill in the rest.

I looked up Ipissimus and got this image on Google Images. Is this accurate?