In the same vein of thought .
I have a very Christian friend that maintains if Judas(the one who betrayed Christ and led to his crusifiction ) isn’t able to get to heaven then she won’t go. In Christian theology the crusifiction led to Jesus dying for the sins of believers.
Sort of requires someone causing his crusifiction for that scheme to work, ??
One hand serving the other hand, sometimes STS behaviour is actually STO from a different vantage point. Probably always.
I was abused as a kid. Really abused, I’m not saying thanks at all, I know it happened because of others pain so can forgive. But in a way it made me who I am so was it really ONLY a bad thing?
While I’m not calling them STS the behaviour obviously was, but in another way it created light.
The deepest STS in my estimations do the same.
Great horrors and suffering increase the capacity, no they create the opportunity for extreme forgiveness, extreme compassion and extreme love. Great darkness calls forth great illumination.
Still I’m so over it in this m/b/s complex lol I know that’s illogical but goodness I need a minimum 40 year hug of only unity to refresh for a while .
it’s all beautiful and horrible but I’d love a dream of just unity for a while.
Editing to add. I know the majority of people their injury doesn’t create light, just decades of pain and the cycle continues so obviously I don’t have the equation cracked.
Law of confussion I suppose.
I have a very Christian friend that maintains if Judas(the one who betrayed Christ and led to his crusifiction ) isn’t able to get to heaven then she won’t go. In Christian theology the crusifiction led to Jesus dying for the sins of believers.
Sort of requires someone causing his crusifiction for that scheme to work, ??
One hand serving the other hand, sometimes STS behaviour is actually STO from a different vantage point. Probably always.
I was abused as a kid. Really abused, I’m not saying thanks at all, I know it happened because of others pain so can forgive. But in a way it made me who I am so was it really ONLY a bad thing?
While I’m not calling them STS the behaviour obviously was, but in another way it created light.
The deepest STS in my estimations do the same.
Great horrors and suffering increase the capacity, no they create the opportunity for extreme forgiveness, extreme compassion and extreme love. Great darkness calls forth great illumination.
Still I’m so over it in this m/b/s complex lol I know that’s illogical but goodness I need a minimum 40 year hug of only unity to refresh for a while .

Editing to add. I know the majority of people their injury doesn’t create light, just decades of pain and the cycle continues so obviously I don’t have the equation cracked.
Law of confussion I suppose.