Other-selves and projection

[Louisabell]

I have finally figured out how priceless peace is and stillness. It took physical catylist of getting adrenal fatigue working 12 hour days 6-7 days a week. To force me to stop, and rest. Then over 6-7 years finally experience peace in that stillness vs guilt of nonproductivity.

Yikes! When did you get downtime?! Or did you not account for any downtime at all? Adrenal fatigue is understandable in that situation. So glad to hear you've been able to find balance there. Health is numero uno.

My point is that rather than force the situation into one circumstance, it might be worth exploring a way that doesn't infringe on each others' tendencies and optimal processes, but rather works with them harmonically in another way

Such a good way to think about it. I can only imagine that this kind of skill only becomes more crucial with the addition of more band members. Also, it makes best use of each member's unique skill set. And yet, if creative differences are too great, it might not be able to be remedied. Music creation can be quite a personal thing, and some members may come to feel stifled when always made to cater to another's artistic vision.