Can you accept being a loser in this world?

[Diana]

STO path is for losers.Living by those guidelines one will do nothing but suffer in this world.  
How can you all accept this crap? To let oneself be beaten is denying the self. 3D density is a battle of equals. It is anything but unity. Such views of unity is what is causing the mayhem in this world. It's not the evil people like the warlord who are the problem....it's the people who think they are doing good by doing absolutely nothing which is ironically what the STO path is mostly about. Sitting by and abiding free will instead of bringing true order into this world. Perhaps there is a kind of balance after 6th density where the entity is capable of establishing order.
I just don't see how any sane individual can deny reality so much.  I understand we are talking about higher density consciousness but by letting yourself be killed you polarize the earth closer towards the negative and remove the light(you)from it. If it wasn't for the large influx of positive wanderers who btw willingly sacrifice themselved!!!!! a handful of negative wanderers could have taken over the planet with ease due to all the "good" people just watching things happen and thinking oh it's all unity nothings really bad is happening.
Coming to earth as a positive wanderer is nothing but russian roulette. This is a sacrifice. Just think about it. Both the confederation and the empire have the same power and you know what? The Empire has 90% less entities than the federation. They are at a numerical disadvantage yet they use their catalyst so efficently they are able to channel exactly the same amount of power.  I understand chosing the path of love but in my eyes that is just chosing infinite heroine over getting over onself and coming clean with reality. I have yet to see someone who incorperates both aspects of the path. Someone who would fight the warlord and defeat him. Giving rise to a new order. One based on justice and freedom instead of enslavement.
I would write down the parts where Ra speaks about this but I think its obvious. There is no need to indulge in martyrdom. There are plenty of other paths available. The monk doesn't even have to fight. Escaping the warlord and cutting off supply routes to his army will starve his men and take his power base away. No need to even confront the enemy. The light never attacks, it defends.
I mean no offense. Just saying not to be stuck in the 4th density view. There are plenty of alien factions who are fighting for the future of humanity in fourth density. Those that are not deluded by the endless amount of love available. There is a great risk in participating in such views. I see lots of people everyday blinded by love and naivety. When opening the heart there also must be allowed for wisdom to flow in otherwise you risk your ability to hold the heart open. The negatives make great use of the positives naivety.

To answer the OP, No. I do not accept being a loser in this world. Being a loser is NOT synonymous with being STO. I consider myself a winner, an empowered person, and I also consider myself STO.

Perhaps the problem is the idea of separation itself. If one is STO, then one understands the self as an other—one must serve self as well as others or there IS separation (between self and others). You can't deny self and only serve others without separation. That is why martyrdom doesn't get a STO entity very far. This may be difficult to balance but this existence is paradoxical.

My take on the monk story: it sounds like the monk is operating from ego. If I were in that village, I would not sit around and be sacrificed, because....to what end? To prove a point? Decisions are made every day by all of us. The bottom line is decisions (or not making decisions and just reacting) derive from who we are. So ask yourself: Who am I?

One more thing. Many people think you need to be STS oriented to be "successful" in this life. It simply is not true. And neither do you have to sacrifice your own comfort for others, to be STO. You can be successful (and by that I do mean financially and otherwise) by having the attitude of being of service. For example, whatever work you do, you do it to the very best of your ability, whether or not the compensation is commiserate with the effort put in. Let's say you are a graphic designer. Are you going to do just enough to get the job done (similar to the majority of humans who only work to get a paycheck)? Or are you going to do your best (in other words, come from a place of love) in any project you are designing, whether you are doing it for a friend for free or doing it for a business that is paying you really well for it? When you do your best in everything you do, you ARE a winner.

My advice is to change focus to the idea of being the best you can personally be in everything you do. Take action and the next time there is a task, complete it with attention and do the best you can. Even if it is something simple like cleaning a room in the house.