Need advice please

[Sacred Fool]

 
Another take on this could be that, prior to working with energy centers, you first need to discipline the mind.  It is the mind which informs you of such things, and its own biases can mislead before you ever get to balancing anything.

Ra says something like, if the mind is a lock, silence is the key.

First know your mind--not the endless contents--but its footfalls and heartbeats.  You will come to know it in silence as it offers itself to you.  Then allow it to offer you answers to your other questions.  Try not to ride it like a beast, but to befriend it.