04-20-2021, 12:04 PM
Ra's observations may always be taken as objective and not immersed in the human drama, so I agree with many here who say to "not get hung up on it."
Instead, don't look for validation outside of self. You are you, and whatever/whomever that is is fine. That's all. Who cares what any outside source says—especially society? Screw society and be yourself. You don't have to fit into a society or culture that changes according to what is popular. There is a saying I love that I came across but I can't remember the source: "Everything popular is wrong."
We are physical beings, which may be transient but it is a part of our current chosen reality. So if there are some limitations such as sexual-energy transfer—so what? It's not the only thing to do here and won't stop anyone from advancing in consciousness.
There is the concept of a wise woman. Many women after menopause lose interest in sex. That may be in part due to hormone levels, but I think there is more to it. The reason they were called wise women in past cultures is because it was thought that the wisdom was in the blood, and when they stopped losing blood every month, they were able to retain their wisdom. In any case, there may be some truth in that, as the loss of interest in sex allowed women to concentrate on deeper things, to contemplate the nature of existence outside of one-to-one relationships. Just speculating here...
Instead, don't look for validation outside of self. You are you, and whatever/whomever that is is fine. That's all. Who cares what any outside source says—especially society? Screw society and be yourself. You don't have to fit into a society or culture that changes according to what is popular. There is a saying I love that I came across but I can't remember the source: "Everything popular is wrong."

We are physical beings, which may be transient but it is a part of our current chosen reality. So if there are some limitations such as sexual-energy transfer—so what? It's not the only thing to do here and won't stop anyone from advancing in consciousness.
There is the concept of a wise woman. Many women after menopause lose interest in sex. That may be in part due to hormone levels, but I think there is more to it. The reason they were called wise women in past cultures is because it was thought that the wisdom was in the blood, and when they stopped losing blood every month, they were able to retain their wisdom. In any case, there may be some truth in that, as the loss of interest in sex allowed women to concentrate on deeper things, to contemplate the nature of existence outside of one-to-one relationships. Just speculating here...