Why if the choice is Love does Ra say the choice is service?

[flofrog]

Of course since we are individual we have to take care fo the self first. However, I think that when you live through a turmoil, or chaotic time, wishing to polarize towards the positive, there is often the desire to take care of the self first, in effect be of service to the self very first, akin to the survival response. Then when you have both realized the other self is you after all, the acceptance reappears and the feeling of separation dissolves. There is an ongoing flux but the more you go, the more you naturally bend towards acceptance and the feeling of fundamental love for others appears so evident.