01-13-2022, 11:47 AM
(This post was last modified: 01-14-2022, 11:54 AM by IndigoSalvia.)
As parents (or teachers, mentors), we walk alongside our children. We grow with them, each in our own unique ways. I teach as much as I learn, and learn as much as I teach with my son.
My relationship with my son is rich with catalyst, and I treasure these catalysts (eventually, if not instantaneously). After reading Law of One, I often hold, with a sense of preciousness, that my son and I made a pre-incarnative pact to be in this relationship together. This knowledge opens my heart. It doesn't always make me a "better" parent in the heat of the moment, but it nudges my awareness back to this precious pact, which prompts me to see our oneness, and be more authentic with him (warts and all).
I read recently in Carla's Wanderer's Handbook about dark nights of the soul in which old pockets of pain surface. (CORRECTION: I believe I read this, instead, in Carla's channeling teachings, not Wanderer's Handbook.) They are explored, understood, accepted and then released to make room for growth. This thread reminds me of this section.
As an adult child, I "made peace" with my parents and the difficulties we faced as a family. I came to a place where I recognized: they did the very best that they could with their spiritual, emotional, mental, etc. resources in those moments. I continually arrive at that place even today; it's not a one and done exercise. It opens a lot of doors between us.
My relationship with my son is rich with catalyst, and I treasure these catalysts (eventually, if not instantaneously). After reading Law of One, I often hold, with a sense of preciousness, that my son and I made a pre-incarnative pact to be in this relationship together. This knowledge opens my heart. It doesn't always make me a "better" parent in the heat of the moment, but it nudges my awareness back to this precious pact, which prompts me to see our oneness, and be more authentic with him (warts and all).
I read recently in Carla's Wanderer's Handbook about dark nights of the soul in which old pockets of pain surface. (CORRECTION: I believe I read this, instead, in Carla's channeling teachings, not Wanderer's Handbook.) They are explored, understood, accepted and then released to make room for growth. This thread reminds me of this section.
As an adult child, I "made peace" with my parents and the difficulties we faced as a family. I came to a place where I recognized: they did the very best that they could with their spiritual, emotional, mental, etc. resources in those moments. I continually arrive at that place even today; it's not a one and done exercise. It opens a lot of doors between us.
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