03-28-2011, 06:32 AM
My mother is a bit of a STS oriented entity. Before I proceed to the problem I want to make it clear that personally I have no problems if someone wants to graduate into 4D- and I can be of service within limits, ie polarising STO myself and if it doesn't hurt any other self.
She is married to a wonderful man whom I don't know that much, but he seems like a good hearted person. He is invited to a party at his work this weekend but she doesn't allow him to go to that party if I am not available. I now looked it up and I am available at that day, so I will do it, I will go out with her though I don't have any desire. But I have questions that you maybe can help me with - if I don't go out with her, he will not be allowed to go to the party. I will do this because I have a desire to help. She is controling us now and we are allowing her to do that in this perticular situation. Is this how it is done? She now polarising negatively and we are polarising positively? What do you think?
She is married to a wonderful man whom I don't know that much, but he seems like a good hearted person. He is invited to a party at his work this weekend but she doesn't allow him to go to that party if I am not available. I now looked it up and I am available at that day, so I will do it, I will go out with her though I don't have any desire. But I have questions that you maybe can help me with - if I don't go out with her, he will not be allowed to go to the party. I will do this because I have a desire to help. She is controling us now and we are allowing her to do that in this perticular situation. Is this how it is done? She now polarising negatively and we are polarising positively? What do you think?