Polarising process?

[3DMonkey]

So, you are doing it for his benefit yet she thinks you are doing it because she threatened she wouldn't allow him to go? Sounds like it's exactly what her plan was.

I'd say you are a pawn in their relationship. I'd let them sort it out without getting in the middle. That's me though.

Lol!!! So now I am the fool who can be scammed.

Gee I mean why it have to be so complicated here? Why not simply ask - listen, my husband is going to a party and I don't want to be alone, would you, please, keep me the company on that evening? Of course!
Why it has to be difficult???

Moms. History. Lol. That's the way moms are I think. Difficult. Maybe I'm biased because I have a mother .

My mom wants everything to be sooo dramaatic and meeeeaningful. I asked her recently about getting info on my deceased father's background. She says "do you want to know about that? There is a way to get info on that, if you want to know about it." it's been 32 years and she wants a soap opera response from me. Just the info please. 'Why!' hahaha.

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Actually, I'm pretty good at steering clear of mom. Mom has always been one to make sure I'm never good enough- always with the "you need to", never with the "let me help you."

I get the shivers too. I comply with special events. I go with the flow, make her happy, then I get out fast and am free for another 6-8 weeks. What really helps me is that my wife gets along with her better than I.

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animalistic/childish orange ray control is not the same as yellow ray polarization.

True statement. It gives me a visual of a dog snapping at another over food rights.