dear xenos and confused. i am very sorry to hear the pain that u have experienced in your family. i take both of you into my heart and love u dearly and share your pain with you. there are certainly legal avenues that could be pursued if your mom so desired as what your dad is doing is not legal. i dont know if your mom would be willing to do that but it is worth pursuing imho.
i will pray for you brother. if i could say one thing please remember
u deserve all good things in this life. dont ever let somebody elses
negativity and unconciousness make u feel that u dont my brother
norral 
and let me add my brother there are legal avenues that u can pursue.
u dont have to put up with that absolute crap no not at all. it is NOT legal to do this stuff and there are consequences to these kind of actions and it just royally pisses me off when i hear stuff like this . your dad is a bully and needs to be sent a wake up call and your family needs to be in counseling. he is not changing on his own that is guaranteed and if u want a change action must be taken.
i will pray for you brother. if i could say one thing please remember
u deserve all good things in this life. dont ever let somebody elses
negativity and unconciousness make u feel that u dont my brother


and let me add my brother there are legal avenues that u can pursue.
u dont have to put up with that absolute crap no not at all. it is NOT legal to do this stuff and there are consequences to these kind of actions and it just royally pisses me off when i hear stuff like this . your dad is a bully and needs to be sent a wake up call and your family needs to be in counseling. he is not changing on his own that is guaranteed and if u want a change action must be taken.