06-30-2011, 06:57 PM
(06-30-2011, 08:44 AM)3DMonkey Wrote: I am developing a view that we each become what the other wants us to be. It is instant and unconscious. We each act differently with each other. I think we serve others by being however it is we are being at the moment towards the other. I'm beginning to believe we do this unconsciously and that it always applies. Like when we are struggling to be nice, but we can't. Or when we decide to be argumentative, etc. I think we mold instantly into what the other needs in their experience. If this is true, then I can also examine an other with me to see what it is I am asking from them.
I hope that makes sense to someone. Please ask me questions about it.
I find this thought very interesting. It is something I've noted since I was a teenager. These days it even happens that I change my dialect to suit that other self I am speaking with, which kind of automatically happens, without my conscious involvement. Azrael had some similar thoughts, that he named "Chameleon Syndrome".