07-01-2011, 02:42 AM
(07-01-2011, 02:19 AM)Meerie Wrote: I am not sure it is a good thing. I am always too focused on the outside, i.e. other people instead of staying with myself.
Yes, that is what I am thinking of too. That it has to be a balance between using that trait to understand and feel the compassion/empathy for others, but still being yourself. Because if you "melt too much" when for instance dealing with negative energy it gets into your system leaving unwanted prints. I am thinking about Q'uo who stated something like "You are here to be different. You are here to be yourself". And what is "yourself" if one always get lost in others. On the other hand, I am also thinking about Ra who said something like "the differences between the self and other self are not seen to us" meaning that there is no difference. Which make a mess in my mind leaving me with huge "HUH?? C'mon guys! Make up your mind already! I am just a 3D being!"
