(07-02-2011, 10:43 AM)3DMonkey Wrote: I'd say if it isn't with honesty, then it isn't resonate.Something resonating suggests a direction (from and/or to) or a 'signpost' - based on the current psyche map. There are no evaluations. What seems to be coming from honesty is what is quite vaguely induced or stirred up from prior experience. But there does not have to be an application of honesty at all to feel that something is 'subjectively right'. That's the pure unconscious or more deeper 'roots of the tree mind' at work. It's the initial, creative or formative stage of something new attempting to become known. Vague apprehension -> comprehension -> acceptance or understanding.
Unfortunately, people will willfully repress the process in attempt to put distance between the inevitable acceptance and what they feel is too much for ego. The excuses range from 'I don't deserve to know that' to 'it's not possible to know it' to 'it makes me feel too good/safe to keep it on that distance and no closer'. And of course, everyone will suffer from this distancing because the new info is ultimately 'you'.