Undestanding domination/submission and its reciprocal - indigo blockage

[Gribbons]

I might suggest that, if you wish, you should take another look at what Ra has to say about sexual energy transfer and the roles of domination, submission, and the enjoyment of either. Love does not have to entail domination or submission, but rather a mutual understanding and respect. If you continually have to balance the enjoyment of sexual domination over another, then you aren't actually balancing it. In true balance, you would no longer experience the emotion/thought.

that is a quite clear and precise approach. gribbons, i would advise that you look into the above approach quite seriously.

the attitudes and formats during sexual intercourse is extremely important. it is a very concentrated energy transfer, and energetic dynamics created during it can persist and affect other situations too.

I see what you mean. I should have used better words, I don't actually think about dominance and submission during intercourse. I was relating dominance and submission to the nature of sex and how it is different for the male and female. More along the lines of this Ra quote:

Due to the veiling process the energy transferred from male to female is different than that transferred from female to male. Due to the polarity difference of the mind/body/spirit complexes of male and female the male stores physical energy, the female mental and mental/emotional energy. When third-density sexual energy transfer is completed the male will have offered the discharge of physical energy. The female is, thereby, refreshed, having far less physical vitality. At the same time, if you will use this term, the female discharges the efflux of its stored mental and mental/emotional energy, thereby offering inspiration, healing, and blessing to the male which by nature is less vital in this area.

I appreciate the release of stored physical energy and I take in return inspiration from her mental/emotional energy. There definitely isn't any blockage in that area. But I know that from this binding that she, in a way, dominates me mentally since I receive her mental/emotional energy. I'm no longer just thinking about my self.

I enjoy and accept this. I'm just trying to apply this becoming 'one flesh, one mind' thing to every thing else, if at all possible.