Waking up "out of body"

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So there must always be acknowledgement of what is true to exist in and work with the present. Many seekers like to project their idealistic visions in attempting to create while ignoring truths of certain situations. Well-intentioned, but not honest. These attachments to ideas as you say, weakens the strength of the will because it does not acknowledge what is in the present. When you tell people this, they think you're raining on their positive thinking reality creation parade. The adept is always working from a base of honesty, acknowledging the truth of the situation rather than solely projecting some biased desire. It's not until you've balanced yourself that the will is most effective. What is desirable becomes less personal and you begin focusing on what is necessary instead.