09-21-2011, 05:13 PM
Hello Tenet Nosce!
It is a wise choice not to be approaching said friend at this moment, as you still describe yourself having fear and anger surrounding this incident/friend. Start out with determining on how you wish to proceed and concentrate your energy on what you wish to do. You say that you want to resolve the issue in a loving, peaceful and joyful manner. Are you ready to take this person into your life and keep this friend as close to you as the person closest to you right now? Not that you will have to do it, but would you be prepared to? Or is there still a bit of fear towards this person (that he/she is unstable) which tells you that even if you were to be friends again, it would be best to keep him/her at a bit of a distance, only for a while, to observe the situation?
When you fully accept this person back into your life, regardless of said persons actions (past, present and future) toward you, the "issue" will be resolved. This is unconditional love.
You say that you were trying to help him all along, remember that this is what we always do.
Namasté and best of luck
It is a wise choice not to be approaching said friend at this moment, as you still describe yourself having fear and anger surrounding this incident/friend. Start out with determining on how you wish to proceed and concentrate your energy on what you wish to do. You say that you want to resolve the issue in a loving, peaceful and joyful manner. Are you ready to take this person into your life and keep this friend as close to you as the person closest to you right now? Not that you will have to do it, but would you be prepared to? Or is there still a bit of fear towards this person (that he/she is unstable) which tells you that even if you were to be friends again, it would be best to keep him/her at a bit of a distance, only for a while, to observe the situation?
When you fully accept this person back into your life, regardless of said persons actions (past, present and future) toward you, the "issue" will be resolved. This is unconditional love.
You say that you were trying to help him all along, remember that this is what we always do.
Namasté and best of luck
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