(01-29-2012, 08:07 PM)Oldern Wrote: I did not like the negative examples in the quoted text (she having AIDS, others having small penis, etc), but I understand the context of it, at least - some people need those kind of encouragements to feel that they are walking on a special road.
I have to be extremely blunt to get through to people. I can't sugar coat stuff and have it still retain direct input.
Just look at how long it took for the guy to "get it". This tends to be a regular thing I run into. Once they understand, they can change the memory itself to anything they want. But shock value seems to be what drives a point home. This is also seen in sarcasm.
The guy had messaged me weeks earlier complaining that he was unable to clear his throat chakra. The only insight he received is that it was connected to fear and gender. Both of those stem from belief. Obviously the source of that blockage was brought forward when he mentioned the girl, with a specific date attached to the event.
It took me maybe 10 seconds to remove his blockage, then he was confused as to why he could not remove it on his own. I told him I was not bogged down with belief. Obviously his blockage would soon return since it is placed there by his belief. Now he has the ability to change his belief to anything he wants, allowing acceptance of that obstacle, and clearing of the blockage. Without the "negative" stuff to get his attention I may have wasted an hour chatting with him and no resolution.
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