forgiveness

[abstrktion]

The hardest part of forgiveness seems to be to allow the other person to change and grow after they've "wronged" you. Sometimes I think that even after an apology and change, we want to hold the other person in the perspective we previously held. I've seen this at my work where the initial complaint someone had no longer exists in the person he was upset with a couple of years ago, but he wants to hold on to that lens and see everything through it.