12-06-2009, 03:30 PM
Well hello again!
Just want to add that i've had this codependencycomplex for 60 years and now that i'm a grown up girl i immensly enjoy the freedom of will i have slowly realized is a reality, which means i can walk away from any person or situation that makes me feel uneasy without feeling any guilt. I do not have any obligation to shine my light on anyone if i feel that it's not the right thing to do for me. Sometimes one has to hide one's light to protect oneself. As I Ching so timely told me when i cast this hexagram and asked how to relate to the forum in this situation:
Hexagram nr 38 "The opposites". When pple are living in opposition they cannot perform great tasks together. Their views differ too much. The elements fire and water never blend but stick to their own nature. An educated person always keep her own character when she frequents persons that have the same interests but of another "nature" than herself. Bot one must not act too abruptly then the antagagonism only shapens.
6 in the 5:th line: If you find a trustable person, since you don't know him/her you are suspiscious in the beginning. But she fights the hindrances that separate you. Then it is ones duty to meet this person that shows her true nature and cooperate.
This hexagram changes to nr 10: You are in contct with a wild and unreachable person. If you behave in a proper manner you can get along even with pple that are easily irritated.
My interpretation of this is that i will preserve my character which is to withdraw for the time being (which i would have done anyway since i'm leaving soon for the eastcoast and my family there) and i will exert my free will do take a pause from the forum. But since there are many "trustble" pple here like litll lady that tries to "fight the hindrances that separate us" i will surely come back and see what happens here in january 2010.
Hexagram nr 10 can even point towards myself, even if that's not the 1
t thing that came to my mind <Lol>. I will just let all irritability come to rest..........................have a pause...................
Isn't I Ching and other methods of divination a wonderful way of talking to your higher self?
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Just want to add that i've had this codependencycomplex for 60 years and now that i'm a grown up girl i immensly enjoy the freedom of will i have slowly realized is a reality, which means i can walk away from any person or situation that makes me feel uneasy without feeling any guilt. I do not have any obligation to shine my light on anyone if i feel that it's not the right thing to do for me. Sometimes one has to hide one's light to protect oneself. As I Ching so timely told me when i cast this hexagram and asked how to relate to the forum in this situation:
Hexagram nr 38 "The opposites". When pple are living in opposition they cannot perform great tasks together. Their views differ too much. The elements fire and water never blend but stick to their own nature. An educated person always keep her own character when she frequents persons that have the same interests but of another "nature" than herself. Bot one must not act too abruptly then the antagagonism only shapens.
6 in the 5:th line: If you find a trustable person, since you don't know him/her you are suspiscious in the beginning. But she fights the hindrances that separate you. Then it is ones duty to meet this person that shows her true nature and cooperate.
This hexagram changes to nr 10: You are in contct with a wild and unreachable person. If you behave in a proper manner you can get along even with pple that are easily irritated.
My interpretation of this is that i will preserve my character which is to withdraw for the time being (which i would have done anyway since i'm leaving soon for the eastcoast and my family there) and i will exert my free will do take a pause from the forum. But since there are many "trustble" pple here like litll lady that tries to "fight the hindrances that separate us" i will surely come back and see what happens here in january 2010.
Hexagram nr 10 can even point towards myself, even if that's not the 1

Isn't I Ching and other methods of divination a wonderful way of talking to your higher self?
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