12-09-2009, 01:52 PM
It's a little bit of both I guess. I really hear you 3d when you say that we have to understand that completely everything that comes unto our path is part of our self attracting it.
But if someone is doing us wrong, perhaps the part of us that is attracting it is that part that does not resist and tell them to sod off.. I don't think problems will go away if we try to pretend it's all in our mind. As an extreme opposite there is the socio path who is psychologically unable to consider that other people have minds and opinions. His inability to envision "conspiracies" of people around him is literally causing him problems.
It has to be something in the middle because what you're saying is certainly true.
But if someone is doing us wrong, perhaps the part of us that is attracting it is that part that does not resist and tell them to sod off.. I don't think problems will go away if we try to pretend it's all in our mind. As an extreme opposite there is the socio path who is psychologically unable to consider that other people have minds and opinions. His inability to envision "conspiracies" of people around him is literally causing him problems.
It has to be something in the middle because what you're saying is certainly true.